Written
by
Sally Spencer.
I have just finished reading an article written by a Zimbabwean guy in answer to one written by a Zim lady about how the men treat Zimbabwean women. I am that angry and that insulted by what he had to say I could bite his penis off and mince it and then make a burger out of it and feed it to him with chips.
Who do these men think they are…??
The reply from some Zim guy who it seems is in the UK made me even madder.
The lady was asking why the Zim men once they head over seas become male whores. There is no more taking time to get to know each other and dates are just an opening to getting into girls’ panties and nothing more. More times than NOT, THE Zim man is married and has a few girls on the side as well what is known as ‘’small houses’’…..
The man’s reply was pathetic and so degrading to us Zim women. HE HAD SO MUCH SELF PITY. He blamed on us Zim women and how when we left Zim went straight for the foreigners ditching the Zim men.
He went on to say that because of this when we decided to start looking for Zim men again they weren’t interested as we were mostly over 30 years old and had a lot of sex mileage on us. So if we found ourselves alone and loveless then we were the ones to blame and we should settle for what we can get or go and find some old White men to look after us.
Where do these Zim men get the right to judge us on things that they themselves do to us and others…??
How come we allow these men to treat us so badly and with such contempt? We even agree to be one of their many mistresses when they are married. Are we that desperate for their company and attention that we will settle for any deal as long as we are able to be with them?
They call us loose, easy and gold diggers when they see us with other men from other nationalities that might be better off than they are or might treat us better.
Not for a single second do they imagine that they are to blame for us looking else where for companionship, love and respect.
This attitude of theirs that they can have as many girls to shag as they can handle irregardless of whether they are married or have a steady relationship with some one else. As far as they are concerned if it looks shag able then it has to be shagged at all costs and they pat each other on the back and shout whoopee when they share their conquests among themselves.
If we do the same sort of thing, we are labelled as ‘’not marriageable material’’ because we have too much shagging history on our bodies. You see too a Zim man wants a virgin, but he is responsible for the loss of virginity of many women. He wants the woman in his life to have not more than two partners before him.
Why must he have one set of rules for himself and another for the women….??? And where is he going to get all these ‘’low shagged mileage’’ girls if he is busy shagging them all…..???
So they shag us then don’t want to marry us because we are too shagged so we get involved with other men from other races because our Zim men don’t want to marry us and then they complain and insult us for that as well.
My advice to them is this ‘’grow up and learn some penis control’’ and if you want women that have not be shagged that much stop shagging around. Learn that we aren’t your personal property and that if you can have small houses on the side then so can we.
You men can have women from all over the world and then decide to want to marry us Zimbabwean women and we say nothing about your pasts. How many of you end up with kids from a lot of different women which we then have to welcome and take care of or share our properties etc with them? All is fine and great because you are men and you are allowed to do that.
Here’s a little word of warning …the way you treat another man’s daughter is the same way that men will treat your daughter and if she happens to end up with a child and be a single Mom she will be called all the names and treated the same as you men are treating us Zimbabwean women in the same situation.
All of this to me shows that men as well as being immature, selfish also have no self respect at all. A man who is proud and respects himself will not treat others with such disrespect and disregard…. Why would you place so little value on women if you value yourself? It is when you have no value of yourself that you treat others the same.
Zim men take a look at your Moms, sisters and daughters and just remember how you treated some one’s Mom, sister or daughter and see if you would like your family to get the same kind of treatment.
Ladies stop accepting this kind of degrading and insulting treatment from our men. Get some pride and self respect and make them stand up to the plate or hit the road. Don’t let them keep on trampling all over us like mats in a public toilet. We are worth a hell of a lot more.
the trick to living a happy life is ignoring Zimbabwean men and their needs. It has worked superbly for me.
I want mine bitten (but not off)
@Toothy…..now that is just painful….(:-
It takes two to tango , Zimwomen need to smell the coffee and get their act together as much as they expect the men to do likewise.
Well its true. Zimbabwean women are earning Oscars in the Best African Female Whores in the Diaspora category. Zimbabwean men are usually quite and introspective; for Zimbabwean men to explode out loud and hang their underwear in public like what that article did means there are sure pissed!
Lawal R Salu (i’m Nigerian by the way)
Lawal, your comment really pissed me off. It is not the women who chase the men. It is the Nigerian men who chase the Zimbabwean women. Which Zimbabwean woman dumped you? No doubt she was wonderful because you are bitter enough to call all of us whores without cause. Not all of us have slept with you, so on what grounds are you basing that slander? On hearsay and what you see? With all due respect sir, you can’t crave after a certain type of woman and then call her a whore. Our men don’t date Nigerian women even though Nigerian women are virtuous. They don’t marry them either. Which means we are still number one. Nigerian men marry Zimbabwean women all the time. Before you deny it, my aunt has been married to a Nigerian for 30 years and living in Harare. I have never heard of a single Nigerian woman married to a Zimbabwean man. They don’t chase them. And they don’t call them names. I am going to be gentle with you sir, because I know as a Zimbabwean woman that Nigerian men love Zimbabwean women. We are free of spirit and love and fun. We are caring, sweet, gentle, clean beyond reason and we love people very much. We are strong and beautiful. I know how much your countrymen want us.
true true …LAWAL..please go to hell..nigerian men chase after zimbabwean women. Just because your women have a freaking attitude and give all black women a bad name doesnt mean that other black women should think less of other people and think they are gods..ISNT that what u mean? that zimbabwean girls seem friendly thats why u label them as hoes…well nigerian people can be worse.
A very intresting article on Zimbwabwen men. I had a chance of interacting with some and they really dont think women have a right to choices in life. they openly cheat and say they are men, they should have as many women as they want. The ball is in your court Zim girls, get things staright and clear, tell them you dont condone,mean what you say and the will learn the ropes of the game. But you can,t expect them to behave unless you pinch them a little bit.
Cheers girls ( from nairobi)